Gene's Cancer Journey Inspired by His Daughter...

We want you to never feel alone or ashamed with a diagnosis of Male Breast Cancer. HIS Breast Cancer Awareness is here to help and hopefully make changes. Read Gene's story as our 'Guest Writer'.  

We welcome others to share their story regarding Breast Cancer in Men as well. 

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Editor; Vicki Singer Wolf Co-Founder

It was sometime in August, 2011 just before our trip to Italy with close friends when I felt the lump in my right breast. Since our trip was so close, I made a mental note to check myself again when we returned. I forgot about the lump and we started on our bathroom remodeling. When I finally remembered about the lump, it was already early November. I felt again and it was larger than before.

 

I told my wife of 45 years that I felt a lump and that I needed to find a doctor familiar with Breast Cancer in men to examine me and determine if what I suspected was true. I did some research, found my Doctor and called his office to make an appointment. I was scheduled for a Mammogram and/or a Sonogram at St. Joseph’s Hospital Cancer Center on Monday, November 14. 

How did I know to examine my breasts? Most men, if they notice something at all would mostly ignore the lump assuming it was a cyst or something very benign. Fortunately for me, my daughter had found a lump three years earlier and as part of her journey she did a Genetic Test to see if she was a carrier of one of the Cancer Genes. As it turned out, she had the BRCA2 genetic marker. My wife had the same test done and she found out she was negative for the marker which left me as the original carrier. Once I knew, I read everything I could and while taking my daughter’s journey with her realized that I needed to continually examine myself for breast lumps.

On November 14, I had my Mammogram. The nurse came back in to take more images. Then I was sent to have a Sonogram also. I then saw the Doctor who immediately did a Biopsy of the lump. He told me that he was pretty sure that I had breast cancer but he would call to confirm by the end of the next day, Tuesday. He called around 6 pm and asked if I could come in with my wife the next day to meet with him? I said yes and the next day, we saw my Doctor and received the news about my Cancer.

I had Breast Cancer: Ductal Carcinoma – Invasive and Infiltrating; 0.9 cm, T1, 

Stage 1, Grade II Biology was Estrogen Receptor Positive (ER +) > 90% and Progesterone Receptor Positive (PR +) > 50%. My Ki67 Proliferation Index was 25 – 35% and the tumor had a doubling rate of 90 days (which meant that the first cell mutated about 7.5 years before I discovered it). For men with BRCA2, having Breast Cancer means a Mastectomy.

So, fortunately, my Doctor had an opening the day before Thanksgiving, November 23rd and I said do it! I was in and out on Thanksgiving Day and able to join my family at my son’s home for Thanksgiving Dinner and my youngest granddaughter’s Birthday. Chemo followed after some discussion and many second/third Oncologist opinions and now I am on a 20 mg Tamoxifen regimen for the next five years.

Thanks to my daughter, I did not ignore my symptom and am doing well today. Her taking her journey saved my life. She is MY HERO!

"My daughter just told me about your web site and after browsing it, I wanted to tell you that I think it is great that 'HIS' created this site for men to educate them about male breast cancer. The above is my brief story and I am willing to share my Cancer Journey so that others may know what they will go through. In my case, education eliminated any fear because I was already so well read on the subject. I am currently 67 and am back to living my life normally. This is my \"brief version\" of my journey."

Gene Taylor -Guest Writer